The Waiting One (and tired of it)

[GoatGal]

Ats,

Sorry to read that things are so confusing for you right now.
Clark sure seems to be on the GUBU plan of blowing hot and cold.

You know, "Give 'em a little glimpse of the man you married, just enough to allow a glimmer of hope to grow, just a bit of light, then--BAM!
Send 'em spinning by reverting back into the bizarre pod people we are working to "accept"."

And I think you're right. They get angry when we don't do what they think we will.

They haven't learned to "have no expectations". In fact, their whole modus operandi is based on "EXPECTATIONS"!

They EXPECT that their life is going to be rosy once they get rid of us, they expect us to act in ways that will support their choices to make it easier for them.
So yeah, they get ticked off when that doesn't go according to plan.


Still--a hug?

I can't even imagine GUBU making sustained eye contact, much less asking for a hug!

On the other hand, touching him when he's in GUBU mode is pretty distasteful, so no loss there.

When my H makes an appearance, he can hug me anytime!

Chin up.

Atta girl, Atsbaby!

--GGG