She wants me to admit that I controlled her by finishing up workouts or getting home 15-30 minutes late. I admit I was selfish and inconsiderate about the workouts, but is this controlling behaviour??? She is aggravating me and attacking my character.
I also found out she went away 2 weeks ago with the OM. I have not confronted her about this. not sure what to do. She left her phone out and unlocked and I read a text message from her to one of her female friends. She also has talked to him more and sent other text messages to him. She also has sent him pictures.
Her only regret is she was unable to reach me and when I was down. I still find it somewhat arrogant on her part. Both counsellors have said we needed some professional help at that time.
I am really at the last resort point. She is getting a lawyer and is planning to set up mediation. I now have to decide on one myself.
