Need to figure out how to move forward (thread #4)

[shodan]

And therefore your advice is the same...detach, GAL and make her realize that she is losing me and that I am ok with whatever decision she makes.

Another bit of advice that was given on my thread was to just NOT pursue. For me, thinking about not pursuing is an easier mindset than going dark because it does not make me think about being a d$ck and rather just not pursuing.