My H wanted to do the same thing! "We can work this out with my L. I'm not trying to scr3w you in any way."
BS! My L told me that the child support and the maintenance (alimony) that Clark offered was way too low. He makes 3x what I do and he only offered about 10% of that to me! Sadly, my state requires mediation prior to court. Way too easy to D in most states these days.
Hopefully, GUBU is just concerned about you or other stuff not concerning the D. Don't get worked up about it. Enjoy your weekend.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
