Hi T! You sound good. I enjoyed reading you thread again. I too am heading for D and have met someone new. Still my R with my W (soon to be XW) co tinues to evolve and change. My GF has been ki d and patient. I find that i now have many of the R quaoities i look for in a mate. We shall see what comes. Ext.
I can also see that my R was very unhealthy. I too went thru proposal, a new child on the way and wedding planning in the same time i have currently been dating GF. Way too fast. Perhaps my D17 was right...she said, mom and you went soooo fast. You were never really "friends" and now that its all gone...you two have nowhere to fall back to. My kiids continue to thrive and grow. We are beginning to heal. I wish you peace as you move forward.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14