1 step forward, 1000 steps back - part 5

[Maybell]

This is a question... There was a text that she said how do we fix this and he said I'm not sure. What if he was sincere, he lacks relationship skills, really doesn't know, and is too manly or whatever to be vulnerable enough to find out? What if he's hoping to get by solving the problem without having to really dig deep because he has just enough self-awareness to know it's going to hurt but not enough to do the work?

Is that possible, and does that change anything?

I guess I'm playing devil's advocate a little and also that I agree with Train's assessment.