You are right. She keeps telling me I controlled her by always being 15-30 minutes late for things. I was being selfish and inconsiderate, but not controlling. She says I am in denial and I will never have a good relationship because I do not look deeply at myself. She is wrong on those points. Her filters and perceptions see more than is/was there at that time. She keeps saying I am a know-it-all when I talk about subjects. I was just trying to talk to her about something I learned today. She replied that I should just say what I did and asked her if she wanted to be informed about it.
She also has been talking about my family still being in denial about everything.
What is bad is that even the counsellors both said her expectations may be unreasonable for a relationship.
I am really having trouble here. She is wearing me down and my resolve is weakening. Not sure how long I can last. The support I had is dwindling and more people believe I should end the marriage. They all think she needs a cold dose of reality.
