Very strange night last night, went out for a friend's birthday, to which h was invited, it was at one of the local clubs.
I had spoken to h earlier when boys were saying goodnight, asked if he was going, he was non committal, I asked if he would be around for an hour while I waited for my other friends to get y here, he sounded hesitant, so I say no stress, I'll be ok, then he got frustrated and basically shouted call me!
so in then end I met h and another friend of ours at a pub, had a drink and headed over to the club.
The night itself was generally good, H was trying to be friendly and light, but I had trouble trying to read whether he was being a smart ar*e or just funny so at times I got snaky, and bit at him.
Our mutual friend kept on making references to ow, and that upset a bit, and then he made some comment about h and I getting d, and got really defensive, and sarcastic, I could see that h didn't like the comment either, he really seems to be in denial about any kind of d talk.

towards the end of the night, and h had many drinks under his belt, he said I really do love you, I didn't know what to say, so I don't think I said anything.

We got a taxi with two other guys to go home, H was first to get out, one of the other guys asked I was, and h said that's my wife, first time I've heard him say that in a long time, H asked if I wanted to get out at his place to gave something to eat, I said I had to get home so the babysitter could go. It killed me because all I wanted to do was get out at his place.
anyway I got home with our other friend who stayed for food and a drink, I texted h and said he should come over and bring more food, thinking there would be no way he'd turn up, he texted back saying give him half an hour, and he actually turned up, so long story not so short, the three of us had food another drink, friend went home, twins woke up, H and II got them back to bed, H said he was too tired and too drunk to go home, could he stay, I said of course, we went to bed, a little bit of hand holding, and both of us saging sorry for silly behavior over the night, some spooning, no overt s behavior, and we slept (except having g to get up to the boys every hour who decided it was play time!)

sooo, not quite sure where I'm at now, H is going to a ladies night with ow tonight, not quite sure why she wants him at a ladies night, but she asked to go with her (I'm thinking trophy boy?!)

not sure what I should do now in regards to contact or behavior, any thoughts out there?