You're spinning big time. What did I say about taking a breather to re-gain your center? Focus on this for ONE week, baby.
And yes the impossible has happened! I've seen sitches where the OW is in H's company/offices and the posters have DB'd the affair all because they re-attracted their spouses.
Ye of so little faith...
I have EVERY faith in you, MDU.
Why don't you take a break from the boards from tonight until after Labor Day? I double-dare you!!