Need to figure out how to move forward (thread #4)

[shodan]

Here is where I am struggling...I am really bad at being not nice. I am really good at doing the Plan A stuff, but with Plan B, I think I come across as angry and a d*ck.

I sense that she is back deep in the fog of the A. She was coming out of it for a bit of time (she was being way too nice to me, held my hand, etc. to be faking it). I think I was not patient enough, she got scared and then let the OM back into her life. So she is acting just like she did when she asked for the D.

I just need to back off and not pursue. Really limit contact with her (although, kind of tough when you live in the same house and have kids). And just see where life takes me.