So we're going on a day trip tomorrow (me, W, S6, and D3). She asked if I'd take charge of all the day's plans, so I did. That's something she normally would do.

It seems as the days and weeks pass, our day-to-day lives have been slowly reverting back to pre-BD levels. I don't know. Maybe it's because I've been living this "new norm" for 2+ months now. Maybe it's because I've become numb to the thought of my wife being loved by another man, and spending nights with him 2 to 3 times a week. She schedules things around her trysts, as if it's just another normal event on her calendar.

"Oh honey, can you take the kids to the Johnson's BBQ lunch, I'm going to be out with OM".

Yeah, and she still calls me "honey", and I do the same.

This is the new normal, and it doesn't seem to faze me much anymore.


M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!