If you are being pursued by women who have been through the wringer or who are emotionally needy, then you are being pursued by someone who is broken.
You know how we say broken people find broken people when we talk about our spouses and their affair partners?
Well....
We're broken now, too. You and me. Lots of the people here. I, for one, am working on fixing that....I hope to NOT be broken one day. But until I do not feel like there is a huge gaping hole in my chest, until I actually can look at my marriage and identify the things that were broken and know that I tried to fix them, until I can say confidently that I have healthy relationships with the people around me....well, then I'm still broken.
I do NOT want another broken relationship.
I want something real and honest and solid and faithful.
Does it feel good to have a woman responding to you and telling you your wife is crazy? Of course. Those women are just mirroring what you feel, so of course that feels awesome. But it's not a good place to start from.
