Need to figure out how to move forward (thread #4)

[shodan]

I just read through my previous threads. My self diagnosis is (1) I became overly excited by all of the positive changes and therefore was not patient and started to put pressure on my W and (2) I went too far into the Plan A territory (partially b/c I saw the positive changes). I think our convo last night set me back a bit.

So what will I do...stay friendly and hospitable. Do not pursue. Continue making her coffee in the mornings but do not look for any conversations with her. If she wants to talk, listen but end the convos quickly. She needs to see that she is losing me without me coming across as angry or mean.