Hey guys , dont no where the gals went but anyway I was wondering through all the stress , humiliation and disappointment we ve all experienced in our sitches which of us has had to deal with serious temptation with the opposite sex during this time . As i stated before in the process of GAL I keep coming in contact with many women who are extremely friendly and Ive been asked out on a number of occasions . And its not letting up , it happened again last night . Do I have a neon sign above my head saying Im looking for a new partner or am i emitting a pharemone ( dont know how to spell that one ) that pulling them in . Im not sure what going on but this never happened much when i was happily married . Is the big guy upstairs testing me even more . I dont need this , I'm trying to save my marriage and family . I dont want to sound like im bragging or im some kind of stud , but it keeps happening . This is the fifth time ive been asked and persued even after i spill my guts about my sitch . Please chime in here guys because this is a problem > Dawgy
Funny you mention that. I get the same thing a lot in the past month. However, it might be because they see a confident guy that has his heart on his sleeve. You have obviously done a good job at working on yourself. If they notice, surely your wife does! Look at it as validation, not temptation. A wise mr.bond told me once.....do you need someone in you life or do you want your marriage? Be okay, knowing that these other women are validating all your hard work. Don't be tempted to stray or you will surely blow it. Hang in there. We are all in weird situations. I try to journal and ask questions here daily. FOCUS
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
