Canyou , I agre and disagree my friend . I dont confide in bimbos . These women are all ladies that have been through the wringer also or are emotionally needy . There may have been a bimbo in the crowd here or there . I dont want to have an affair but I can relate how you worded that to show how my wife felt . Im not sure what i did that was so bad for her to step outside our marriage but I will accept some responsibility for sure . However if I was to have an affair I believe I could justify it more than she could . Afterall Im not in the middle of a torrid affair shoving it in my spouses face like her . I agree these women are looking to take advantage for their own gain for sure . I mean they see a guy thats been cheated on and treated like garbage , and hes decent looking , has a good paying job and is still devouted to his wife . A good catch perhaps and they believe my wife is crazy for throwing it all away . I guess it just feels good to be wanted after my wife has clearly shown me that Im not wanted by her . I know some day shes gonna regret every minute of this whole charade but while shes in the fog she cant see it


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )