Thanks Starsky. She has agreed to NC and I believe that she has not been in touch with him at all. However, she is not transparent with her phone or email. Also, she has written in her journal that she is trying to stop "hoping for her ap" and to get him out of her mind. The A has supposedly been over for 3 and a half months. However, She will not commit to the M. She is willing to try and start over and basically date each other to see if that helps her feelings to return. She wants all serious talk to stop and to put the A and our previous bad M in the past. This all sounds great in theory but real life execution is going to be much harder.
Me: 45 W: 44 M: 20 T: 31 S 20, D 13
W affair ended 5-13-14 W confessed 5-27-14 W wants to R 4-1-15; I'm not sure Living in same house, separate beds