I can relate to you on the communication (passive-aggressive behavior). It is something that I am working through myself.
There are plenty of things you can do to move forward. I suggest reading The Divorce Remedy by Michele Wiener Davis to start with. Also, on the home page of this site, you can read the articles under "Free Advice". Along with reading and posting to other threads in the forums.
Google, "Livestrong Developing Detachment". I referenced this often. It helped me understand what detachment meant. Other great material to reference on this site: Tools for coping
The main thing, focus on getting yourself through this mess. My situation changed twice, when I was living my life as a single father.
What I am say, is that if/when you do the work, you will be better for it no matter the outcome.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
