Hi Nitty, I get that weird stuff as well. I have gotten several texts about where to get gas cheap from my W. One just out of the blue a couple days after she blew up and went to her lawyer and told him to finalize everything, she's had "enough" (I asked if I could keep a clock we had bought together when she was at the house collecting all the "stuff" she wanted to take in the D. How dare I ask to keep something she wanted! I didn't demand, I just asked nicely and SHE blew up!). The "guilt" thing is so common as well. i got that I was "making" her feel guilty. Gee, maybe it's that what you are doing is wrong, hurtful to even your own kids and that"s why you feel guilty? MLCers seem to have to blame every "Bad feeling" they have on us. Remember, if we're not the problem then they might have to stop and realize what the real problem is ....and that would mean looking inside, something that scares them more than anything!
My W would get angry when her "true" friends would tell her that she needed to think before ending her 20 year M. All she wanted to hear was how she should do what she thought she needed. Her real friends were frozen out and the ones that just said what they knew she wanted to hear were now her "real" friends. This really is a form of madness we're dealing with. There is no logic allowed to interfere with what they "want" to think.
