Hey Turn I totally get the part that if the kids knew they would be devastated . Ive kept it together primarily for them . I dont want them to know what their mother is doing . Not in the least , but they will find out eventually if she doesnt smarten up . They are not stupid , they sense tension and just think mim and dad work too much and its just a phase . Thats one of the things that upset me soooo much is her disregard for her childrens well being . If the kids wernt in the picture , I would have told her to pack up months ago . But I cant bear the thought of hurting them . I would let her abuse me indefintely just to protect them from the shame and misery . At least till they are 18 or 19
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
