Sorry you are stressed. Take a moment to catch your breath and relax. Why the rush to send this email out? Maybe you write your own version in your own words. If nothing else it will highlight the differences better than just stating them
However I am still of the opinion to NOT send out an announcement. No one else's business and can't help long term reconciliation
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16