You're on moderation in the beginning so your posts don't show up.

You're in a tough situation and it is different. If your W is a lesbian, she is. You changing won't change that.

If you know you need to change your behavior, then do it. It will make you a better Dad and a better co-parent. i'd stop the spying on her. How will that help you? Wee all look for comfort and advice, that's why you're here.

Are you, and especially the kids, getting some counseling?

Last edited by labug; 08/29/14 04:00 PM.
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M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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