Thanks Joe, i appreciate you taking the time to read my post and reply. Also getrite too. I'll take some time to read your stories over the weekend. In the meantime please know that i'll be thinking of you guys, everybody on here really, and hoping that your situations improve the way you'd like them to. What a great resource this place - so supportive and educational.

I guess my situation is different? or is it? - i'm not getting many replies at the moment, lots of views.

Things about me she'd like to see changed are ..
No more 'controlling her'; Better with the girls; Do more around the house/improve the house; Less moody..
Not all about me; Less watching sport on tv.

I of course have accepted and validated her views and the last two months i've been working on all of them. First and foremost for me as i know i can't change the past and i've said exactly that to her.
At the moment i don't see much of a future with her though.
Sorry, a bit down currently due wedding anniversary weekend. I'd booked a long weekend holiday away for us to celebrate..


Ages: Me 58 Wife 50
Together: 27 years M25
D24 D21
Bomb Droppped 21 June 2014