I understand that H responded appropriately and professionally. However I kind of just feel like I want him to stand up to them. I know that is childish on my part and I'm trying to work through my feelings on that. I struggle with wanting them to know that they aren't priority and that this has been a mistake. It bothers me that they think he's coming home because he has no other option.
Cue wounded's famous words - let it go!
And I would echo that.
You have no control of what others think. Your husband could stand on the street corner, tarred and feathered and handing out flyers and people are all going to think different things.
The opinions that matter are yours and your H's.
What are your feelings? That is a good place to start.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
