Continue your galing and one day, you will discover that you actually have detached and are enjoying your life once again. I think you are doing just fine.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
