Maybe he is pulling back a little BUT he can't ignore the night spent on the porch and the emotional connection of ML. Pulling back a little to get perspective, to consider events, to feel, to think... this is all normal. Maintain the status quo with you. Observe. Take care of yourself.
Ss This is what I pray daily to continue GAL and working on me.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
Continue your galing and one day, you will discover that you actually have detached and are enjoying your life once again. I think you are doing just fine.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.