How to Proceed

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Well, I did talk to her last night. I had to go sign some papers for her financial aid for school. I let the subject of dating be brought up. I told her that since we are on the road to self improvement that seeing other people would only complicate things. I asked her if she would break contact with other men. She said no. She said she is no longer dating and she is focusing on her school and finding herself. I told her that no matter what, I am not going to see other women because we are married. She said that she understands and my road to self improvement is different than hers. She said that her IC said that what she is doing is perfectly normal to do what she is doing and also recommended another website to meet people. Not a dating site, but one where you can meet with people that have similar interests in a group setting. She says she is not looking for. Relationship and she does not want one.

I stopped reading DR, it just feels hopeless. I will pick it up and continue today.