Hi all, just babbling some more.

Thinking a bit about the OW. Getting annoyed.

She doesn't want a relationship with him, but he wants one with her. So he feels a bit rejected. And yet they are still having sex, having dinners together, talking, being friends with benefits.

He is not with me, in part because of his feelings for her. But he is also not with her, and doesn't really expect to be with her in the future, although maybe he hopes it will happen. But he is still into her. And he is still with her as friends with benefits.

This seems like some kind of limbo to me.

Does their stupid half-assed relationship have to play out before he can come out of his fog? Is there anything I can do?

I know this is basically a rhetorical question as the only things I can do are GAL, PMA, NC, seem like I moved on...

Does anyone whose WAS was in an A want to weigh in with advice for me?

Hugs, LisaB