I will agree with all!! There are good days and bad days! Most of the time they are not out to get us so to speak, but in the beginning there is some of that, as it goes on there is more compassion i think, at least in my stich. The snooping thing is very hard, I think its a guy thing. I will go a while without caring and then all if a sudden a bad day and poof you cant stop yourself. But thats part of the process, getting better and ,earning about yourself. If you can keep up the no stooping for longer and longer, it should get easier.