Ugh! I get the "You are just loving being the victim, aren't you?" all the time!

A variation: "Yeah, I know, you are the victim and I am EVIL bla bla bla. Get over it."

And yesterday this came via email: "Stop trying to be the victim or whatever the hell you're doing because it is only pushing me further away."

GUBU and Mr. Gritty must be passing the same script back and forth between the two of them.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R