Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Update.

So I did decline the invite, she replied "Wow, she must be really special to be more important than me and our S" .... I just ignored the comment


Classic MLC: projecting her transgressions onto you.

I think you are doing great, CaliGuy. The blame just sets me off anymore. I'm working on getting a lid on it before I do any more damage in return.

But you sound like you've developed a good Teflon shell.


M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R