So I did decline the invite, she replied "Wow, she must be really special to be more important than me and our S" .... I just ignored the comment
Classic MLC: projecting her transgressions onto you.
I think you are doing great, CaliGuy. The blame just sets me off anymore. I'm working on getting a lid on it before I do any more damage in return.
But you sound like you've developed a good Teflon shell.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R