Sounds like a positive night for you igit. I would caution reading too much into what your W may or may not have been thinking. If for no other reason it might subconsciously alter your actions/mood unjustly.
Keep at what you are doing. You seem to be on the right road doing the best you can given the circumstances.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16