Atsbaby, I had to fill out the forms, too, and cried my eyes out.

Three decades of building a life together, summarized on a couple of forms with columns of numbers. Everything we know about to be hacked to hell by a machete called the Big D.

I'm hoping it's true that it gets better. Have faith!

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R