Thank you everyone. I do need the support and advice! I appreciate you guys so much. We will all get through this one way or another.
So I really have to vent since I have found out more sh** ! I feel if I get it out here, it won't be reflected towards Clark the @$$hat!
Yesterday at work I get an email asking about the weekend and how Clark wants to take kids Sunday and split Monday "I'll get them midday and return around 4."
Um...NO. I responded with "we'll discuss later." So last night Clark asked about it and I said I didn't know yet, but it was a little unfair of him to take the kids from 10-4. His response was "I would get them for 6 hours and then you'd have them from 4-10."
Hello! School night!! They will be in bed by 8:30. Plus the time I get with them is making them breakfast and dinner. How the heck do I spend time with them? Oh that's right, it all about the lack of responsibility. Sorry forgot Clark!
Anyways, tonight I suggested we split Sunday and he has them all day Monday. He gave me a confused look and said when do you want them back. I'm not sure. He knows a friend will be in town and her and I will be hanging out. But this is the problem, I probably won't see her until evening, so he says, well I have plans.
Right, responsibility, my bad Clark! He says don't worry about it. I'll make it work. I finally click 2+2= busted!!!
Before this whole bd crap, we were buying the local university season football tickets from his parents. I'm a HUGE fan. Well @$$hat went a head with buying them and has lied to my face multiple times about them. I'm so pi$$ed!
So he did admit to "splitting" them. Not sure if this is true or not...going with not. I think he bought them all not splitting. Can take ow so I can't catch them together. Anyways, his mom kinda gave him away tonight at s football game, which is how I figured it out.
I know I need to let this go, which is why I'm here...I'm so emotional now and it bothers me.
I'm retaining my atty tomorrow and hopefully can get some of this stuff locked down with temporary orders. I need time away from him and I'm trying desperately to figure out how. Clark chooses to sit next to me at s football stuff, but you're right 2B, I need to get up and walk away. I'm NOT in a place to be friends. I really want my M to be reconciled, but I need my sanity first (plus the man Clark is now, is not the man I want).
And yes, my clothes are for me. They are actually for work, and they make me proud of my self again
Last edited by Atsbaby; 08/29/1403:30 AM.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile