Today I received some more bills in the mail for which payment had been rejected. I have not spoken more than a sentence to W since Monday; she is always gone and I don't really have much to say to her anyway. However, these bills which she has always paid which are not getting paid has pushed me to my limit. I am considering giving her an ultimatum (I know, we really aren't supposed to be doing those) that either she comes up with the money and pays about $400 of past due bills, or I will cancel phones, cable, and internet, and she can get those things on her own.
A friend told me that W had talked to landlord about renting an apartment in another property which landlord owns; she was supposed to have looked at it this Wednesday. Seems most here on these forums are trying to get their WAW or H to come back, but for me, the cake eating and OMs need to come to an end, and as long as we continue to share the same space there is no incentive for W to discontinue her behavior. Clearly the status quo is not working so the situation needs to be shaken up until something does change.
Me37, W30, S7 Married 10yrs 05/11/04 ILYBINILWY 22/09/13 Disc. OM1 26/09/13 Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14 Affair Confession 21/06/14
W and I share same apartment (for a few more days). W isn't pushing for D.