Vossy, I'm glad to see an update from you because I've been thinking about you a lot.
I'm just spit-balling because I'm not an expert and my own situation has me thoroughly confused so I'm really not in a position to make suggestions so please take my recommendations with a lot of salt...
What do you think would happen if you
1. didn't respond to his email/questions? 2. Started to date?
I know #2 seems pretty far out there but I wonder if you know your own value. You've been waiting around for someone since last October who isn't respecting what you had in a relationship and doesn't seem to be any closer to doing so even now.
I'd really encourage you to do #1 and seriously consider #2.
What are you doing day to day to GAL? How is work?
Talk to me about how you'll do without responding to him. Lay it out for me.