Vossy, I'm glad to see an update from you because I've been thinking about you a lot.

I'm just spit-balling because I'm not an expert and my own situation has me thoroughly confused so I'm really not in a position to make suggestions so please take my recommendations with a lot of salt...

What do you think would happen if you

1. didn't respond to his email/questions?
2. Started to date?

I know #2 seems pretty far out there but I wonder if you know your own value. You've been waiting around for someone since last October who isn't respecting what you had in a relationship and doesn't seem to be any closer to doing so even now.

I'd really encourage you to do #1 and seriously consider #2.

What are you doing day to day to GAL? How is work?

Talk to me about how you'll do without responding to him. Lay it out for me.


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.