Ditto to what 'whatisis' said. Your feeling about wanting to have your son learn by having to deal with the path he has chosen, is kind of similar to what we are trying to do using DB with our wives/spouses/ex-husbands, right? What's the most important goal right now? Is it the your granddaughter's welfare, having your son learn from this to make better choices down the road, or something else. You have your work cut out for yourself on this one...


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace