Thanks. I have read the DB book and will re read. I even took a coaching call. It was great but I cannot do more if there is no possibility of contact with wife
I am beyond the last resort. I bought the remedy book yesterday online along with other relationship books. The reviews say dr is stronger. My situation is stronger and darker than most of the DB situations because at least most couples are on some mind of speaking terms. I pray daily too and I really distaste people telling me it is gods will. Rubbish we have free will.

I already feel like she is just a stranger out to ruin me financially. I have to get rid of that idea and be the best I can be to myself and community. Thanks to you all