Ok, you're sort of getting it. I have a feeling you haven't read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy. I'm not slamming Dr. Laura but she's divorced so I'm not sure she can give a whole lot of advice on how to keep your spouse. Just my very humble opinion.
Get the DR and read it cover to cover. Don't risk going to jail, obviously. And DON'T GAL just to get under her skin. Do it for you. Do it for your life. Do it to make yourself better. I feel like you're really not getting the point of this process. It's not to teach her a lesson or to get her to come back immediately. I get that you're hurt because there's another man but dude, there are people here with worse situations and they are working DR and seeing small but meaningful results.
What do you want. Do the work. Get the books and stop trying to get under her skin. STart looking inward and get comfortable in YOUR skin. Do the work.
