I kept throwing lots of money into projects with no immediate payoff. I would have broken my will and spirit in retrospect to make her happy with a paycheck job just to make her smile.

We have no contact at all. If I even text her I will land in jail. I cannot take that risk plus it will not bring us closer.

I will get that book. Thanks. I will add that to the dr Laura books I just bought.

Success is the best revenge. I am telling people I am more successful in mindset and reality. This week my mood has been sour since I have been pushing myself nonstop since June into my work. I will restart Monday and keep up the good work. I need better friends. People in my life who are not spies.

Love the advice. I will write it on a new dream board.
I know I have to be more involved in activities. Now it is work and the weekly homeless outreach. Diet and exercise with a personal trainer.

I need to join the union league and the racquet club to be in better company.

Your right. Doing great will crawl under her skin I hope unless some OM has her heart and brainwashed her



Me 33
W. 30
No kids

Married nov 2008
Separated June 2014
She filed divorced day after I was kicked from home