You know, I get that you're hurt, but that list of the things that I had asked you to list of things that YOU did wrong, went right back to blaming everything on her. It's easy to make yourself sound like a saint because you're not the one who wants to D, but if you want to save your marriage, you are going to have to be brutally honest and put things down from HER perspective as to what issues there were.
"what did i do wrong in the last two years? i worked, i earned money, i cooked paid for bills, took her out anywhere she wanted, offered to take her to vacations and she refused i had big projects moving forward and she squashed them all. my life reduced to a few dozen garbage bags and living in my dads house until we divorce or reconcile"
This is all from your hurt feelings. Be impartial for a bit and even if you don't agree with what she said about the reasons, they are HER reasons.
Start again and write down the issues that SHE said were wrong in the M.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
