Thanks Ss!
Maybe OD can explain it better but I think "pull" means to attract someone to the point that they go home with you. As in "yeah I went out last night and I pulled this babe and we went to my place and did it" or "tonight I hope to pull" aka "get lucky".

I felt the message saying I looked great was totally surprising and bizarre, but I think following the advice of you all really works. And for that I thank you with all my heart. Even if I never reunite with my WAH, the advice I get here really helps my confidence and self-esteem. I feel I have an idea what to do, rather than just stumbling around in the dark by myself.

Y'all are the BEST!
Hugs, LisaB