Dealing with WAW part 4

[u-turn]

Pilot & Roid,
I too feel I am at the same point on many days. Is it really worth it? I also feel like my situation is similar to both of yours and not as bad as others, but it also seems like it could linger forever in the same pattern forever if not pushed.

Early on when I did push her to make a decision, she said she chooses herself (which is choosing inaction and preferring to keep things as they are).

I wish I had the magic solution to all of this - and keep looking here for it. But I really know it is all up to how long we can hold on.