You're right. They muddy the water, drop in a lure...and we wonder...do we risk a bite?
We can't always avoid R discussions, but it's hard to know if they'll be productive or destructive. It probably depends on the lunar phase and how much tin foil they have for their hats...
It can make you crazy right along with them.
This is a significant change in GUBU's behavior, but I suspect he is not the one initiating it. I can say he's been more wacky, more nasty, keeps updating his dating profile, (less lies, hmmmm) has been feeling me out on little things, but then when I keep acting as though I am moving on, he gives ME the "Well, I won't miss you, how soon are you leaving? I can't wait!" treatment.
*sigh*
As for the boat trip, it was with two girlfriends he knows. Although there was talk of male strippers dressed like firefighters (lake unit), mounds of cocaine, and a floating casino...
Thanks for popping by!
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?