I have been there on numerous days. Do I want to go on, can I keep doing this? I to don't have it as bad as some others, but just because it doesn't look bad doesn't mean it feels any different to us. And I don't blame you for trying different things at all. We are in similar situations as far as where we are, but still everyone is a bit different. My wife responds well to positive actions, so I will try to keep those up, and besides it helps my moods anyway.
As far as her saying what she said? She was just spouting off, still upset, still unsure, and still in turmoil a bit. My wife has said recently, that even if we got back together she doesn't want to be married to anyone, she could have been better off single and had more for her life! I don't believe that at all. She says that to just try and feel good for her, ignore it and move on. Maybe one day we will get the true feelings from them, but not anytime soon I don't think.
