Igit newbie needs help part 3

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my w called me today to touch base on some work stuff. I asked her if she had plans for weekend. She said nothing planned. I asked if she was ok with me going out of town tomorrow night back on Saturday eve. she was ok with it. didn't tell her where or with who. then I asked her how she would feel about taking kids for an overnight on sat or sunday some where. I liked the approach on how she would feel about it. 180 for sure on my part. I know the kids are hurting rt now from her lack of connection, they are starving for attention. anyway she is going to get back w me on that one. trying to act as if all is good in my world. <its a tough acting job> anyway going to contact my L tomorrow and see what and how to respond to Summons. I know w will ask me sometime soon to talk about it. I will be polite but decline to get into anything at this point. a 60-90 day period before a meeting of some sort with a mediator. I have some time so need to use it wisely.