Unless I've misinterpreted your post, mdu, I saw negativity but no outbursts? Am I right? If I am, that's progress! Don't turn back now!
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014