To reply I never even once scolded her or told her to go out less often. I encouraged her to go out with friends in the beginning. It grew out of control and I became helpless and my despair and sadness and loneliness grew. At this point the only time I see her is in court and she is cold as a complete stranger with hardly a glance or word. If only I knew this venue last year I would have a chance.
Any different advice? When is it time to force marital counseling.?
It appears that everyone wants a good partner but it appears that the dating scene is a meet/meat market of one night stands, flings and lies with few true people. Low self worth creates needing someone
Doing well for oneself in this respect is just limited to working and drinking with friends
I completely agree with your other points. The old marriage is over and if given the opportunity or privilege a new beginning can happen.
We don't have any mutual friends that still talk to us both. Any contact of any kind from me to her or even to her lawyer to tell her is a Pfa violation.
It is frustrating that I can't be there for her or share the humor of my days or a funny observation.
My mind is a prison. Sometimes I feel I was never even married. The GAL is really tough when all new friendships are required.
