help me i am new here

[twinmom]

Wow! Sorry to be so blunt but I am glad I am not your wife. She is right, you are NOT her father and have no right to scold her! If she didn't want to be around you THAT is her choice. You need to understand you can't control her.

Maybe your depression was more than she could handle, the only thing you can do now is to let go of the past and make yourself a man that she would be interested in now.

The marriage you had is over. It's up to you to prove that you have changed by living your life without her and being the man you want to be long term. Maybe, she will decide to see what that life would be like for her and maybe not. But it's not about getting her frustrations and evil out then coming back to the marriage.

She needs consistent change she can believe in.