FY- you're right, I went into fix it mode. Ackkkkk! I need to wack myself with the patience shovel!
Don't whack yourself too hard, you're learning. My mistake was ending up in "convincing mode" any time we had a R talk. I'm better now but still have to be careful. You can't convince 'em back!
Last edited by ForeverYoung; 08/28/1404:11 PM.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl