How to Proceed

[getrite]

I understand what you are saying, but I have had control issues in the past. I feel like if I ask her to have no contact, she will perceive it as me trying to control her. It is one of the things that I am working on. I told her that it hurts that she is seeing someone. She says that he is jut a friend that she talks to and hangs out with sometimes because he is going through a similar situation. She says she is not romantically involved with anyone because she is not ready to have any relationship that is more than friends, including me, but her emotional state last night made me think differently.

I don't know, I am more confused now than ever.

Also, she says that she needs someone to talk to because her circle of friends is shrinking. She says she can't even talk to them about our issues anymore. That is why she is looking for new friends going through similar things.